The story behind the quizzes
Why your result says what it says, and what that type actually looks like day to day.
How many red flags is too many? The count is the wrong question
Everyone asks for a number — two, three, five. There isn't one, and the reason is interesting: red flags aren't independent events. Here's what to count instead, and the short list where counting doesn't apply at all.
Green flags and red flags, and the moment each one actually shows up
Every list of relationship flags has the same problem — it tells you what to look for but not when you could possibly see it. Here are both lists, sorted by the week you can actually observe them.
Your red flag probably isn't a personality defect — it's a pace problem
Most of what gets called a red flag in early dating is a timing mismatch, not a character flaw. Here's how speed, disclosure and attention combine into the thing people notice about you in month one.
Red flags and green flags are often the same behavior at different speeds
The traits people list as warnings and the traits they list as proof of a good partner overlap more than anyone admits. What separates them usually isn't the behavior — it's the rate, and whether anyone agreed to it.