The Old Friend
A lot of people you'd die for and never text.
You are warm and available, and almost never the one who opens the thread
Months of nothing, then four hours that cover the entire year
A wide circle, each one real, none of them requiring daily upkeep
Who you are
Your circle is wide and the contact is rare, and you are not the one restarting it. What you have instead is a talent that sounds small and isn't: you pick up exactly where things left off, with no penalty for the gap, with anyone.
Most friendships do not survive that treatment. Yours do, because there is no accounting in them. Nobody owes anybody a reply, a year of silence means nothing, and the person who calls you after three years gets the same version of you they got before.
The blind spot is that no-maintenance also means no visibility. You would drop everything for these people, and you also would not know if one of them had been struggling since spring. Being reachable is not the same as being present, and a few of your friendships are slowly becoming fond memories rather than active relationships.
Pick three names. One message each, this month, with no reason attached.
You know it's you when…
- Three years passed and it was exactly the same when you met
- You'd drop everything for someone you haven't texted since spring
- A close friendship quietly became a fond memory
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