The Daily Check-In
Three people who know what you had for lunch.
If you waited for other people to start things, you would see nobody
Little contact most days, so there is never much to catch up on
A short list you invest almost everything in, and no plans to extend it
Who you are
Your list is short and the contact is constant. Two or three people get a running feed of your life — small things, unfiltered, most days — and you get theirs back. There is no catching up because nothing is ever behind.
This produces the closest kind of friendship there is. Your people know the texture of your ordinary week, not just the headlines, which means when something big happens they already have all the context. Nobody has to be briefed.
The exposure is obvious. A list this short has no redundancy, so one person moving, getting busy, or drifting takes out a large fraction of your social life at once. And the intensity that makes it good can be a lot to receive on a week when they have nothing to give.
Keep one warm outer ring. Not another best friend — just two or three people you'd text twice a year, so the list can flex.
You know it's you when…
- Someone knows what you ate today and it isn't family
- One friend getting busy changed your whole month
- You have never once had to catch anyone up
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