The Group Mom
Without you this group meets zero times a year.
You're in it all day and everyone knows it
Without you the plan stays a group of messages
You check in, follow up, and remember the hard weeks
Who you are
You're in the chat all day, you're the one who turns "we should hang out" into a reservation, and you're the one who texts someone privately when they post something that sounded off. You are, functionally, the infrastructure. Nobody voted on this.
You didn't ask for the job. You just noticed nobody else was doing it and couldn't stand watching plans die in the group chat. Which is real love, honestly — it just gets counted as personality instead of effort.
The cost is that being reliable becomes invisible. People stop thanking you for things they've stopped noticing, and quiet resentment builds — you doing everything, then feeling bad about feeling bad about it.
Try letting one plan fail. Not passive-aggressively, just genuinely. Either someone else steps up, which is useful information, or nothing happens, which is also useful information.
You know it's you when…
- You've made every reservation this group has ever had
- You text people separately when something sounds off
- Without you this group meets approximately never
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