The Lightning Round
Intense, brief, and unexplained. Every time.
You escalate early, and the first three weeks look like the third month
They get a clean summary and no way to reach what is under it
Your attention lands off the table, and they can feel it
Who you are
You come in hot, you keep the inside of your life closed, and then your attention moves on without a conversation. From where you sit each of those was a separate ordinary decision. From where they sit it was one weather event.
The speed is real interest, so it is confusing to be told it was not. You were not stringing anyone along. You just never opened the part of yourself that would have made an ending feel like it needed explaining.
The flag is the exit, not the entrance. Because they never got much of the inside, they also never get a reason, and a person with no reason will invent one. Almost always the one they invent is about something they did.
You do not owe anyone an autopsy. One honest sentence when you feel yourself going is enough, and it is the difference between a short thing and a bad one.
You know it's you when…
- Somebody is still not sure whether the two of you dated
- You went quiet and told yourself they would understand
- The intensity was real, and so was the disappearing
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