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What's Your Red Flag?

What's Your Red Flag?

The thing the other person notices in month one and mentions in month six.
12 questions and one uncomfortably specific answer.

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How many red flags is too many? The count is the wrong questionEveryone asks for a number — two, three, five. There isn't one, and the reason is interesting: red flags aren't independent events. Here's what to count instead, and the short list where counting doesn't apply at all.Your red flag probably isn't a personality defect — it's a pace problemMost of what gets called a red flag in early dating is a timing mismatch, not a character flaw. Here's how speed, disclosure and attention combine into the thing people notice about you in month one.Red flags and green flags are often the same behavior at different speedsThe traits people list as warnings and the traits they list as proof of a good partner overlap more than anyone admits. What separates them usually isn't the behavior — it's the rate, and whether anyone agreed to it.
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